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Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts

Tuesday, 20 October 2015

Physical Effects Of Stress & How to Cure With Mindfulness

Physical Effects Of Stress & How to Cure With Mindfulness

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The Physical Effects Of Stress


We all get stressed, some more then others and some even find themselves constantly feeling stressed and overwhelmed.

Stress can be extremely harmful to our body and mind if it is mismanaged, so it is vital we learn how to better manage our stress levels to ensure optimum overall health. Between 60-90% of all doctor visits are stress related in forms of illness, physical problems and mental issues, so being able to manage our stress will inevitably increase our overall wellness. 

I want to first briefly go into the physical effects that stress causes in our bodies to better understand the negative effects and why it is so important to manage.

When we are feeling stressed it triggers what is called our 'Autonomic Nervous System' to go into imbalance. Our Autonomic Nervous System controls our Sympathetic Nervous System (deal with fight or flight and stress response) and our Parasympathetic Nervous System (deals with relaxation and rest response)
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Stress makes our Sympathetic Nervous System kick into action releasing stress hormones into our bodies. We are not able to cope with long term fight or flight conditions. Our flight or flight and stress response is only meant to serve us for very short periods of time. Continued time spent in this state will have a dramatic negative effect on our bodies, such as, but not limited to, the following:


  • Adrenal Fatigue Syndrome
  • Thyroid production difficulty
  • Reproductions hormones issues such as menopause and low sperm count 
  • Inability to regulate inflammation
  • Immune system breakdown
  • Digestive issues, such as regulation of blood sugar
  • Muscular pain and injury

How Mindfulness Can Cure Stress



When mindfulness is used regularly it soothes our Autonomic Nervous System and increases our Parasympathetic Nervous System which deal with our relaxation and rest response and decreases our Sympathetic Nervous System, thus creating a perfect balance for overall wellness. Relaxation creates effectiveness within our bodies, it allows our bodies to work in harmony and provides the best environment for us to thrive and live healthier well balanced lives.
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When you are fully engaged in your present moment you are not bringing any regrets or worries from your past or future which makes your present moment free of resistance. When you are free of resistance, you are no longer triggering your stress response and when you are no longer triggering your stress response your Autonomic Nervous System is in balance.


"Mindfulness and meditations is better then any drug for lowering your stress levels and balancing your Autonomic Nervous System"
Keith Holden, M.D. Physician



So what is Mindfulness



Mindfulness is about paying attention to the present moment without judgement. Watching, witnesses and allow things to unfold, releasing resistance to the present moment. Calmly engaging in the present moment as often as you can. When we resists against things, this is what can cause the stress response in our bodies.

Using mindfulness to trigger your relaxation response will create relaxation in the body/mind and reduce stress and limit illness and physical pains caused by stress.


Mindful Techniques To Try



Undertaking mindful techniques on a daily basis will soon become a habit, second nature to you. You can practise mindfulness anywhere and at any time. Here are a few easy to follow tips on becoming more mindful.


Focus on your breath


Sit quite and start taking deep slow breaths and be totally focused just on your breathing. Start doing this for about 5 minutes at a time and slowly increase the time as you get better at it. If you start notice the chatter of your mind coming into your thoughts, just acknowledge them and then brush them away. I literally visualise a broom sweeping them from my mind. Then refocus on your breath again.

The best way to breath during mindfulness meditations is to belly breathe. This is also called Diaphragmatic breathing because you are engaging your diaphragm fully to pull in a deep breath to the bottom of your lungs. You will know you are engaging your diaphragm when you see your tunny extending outwards with each breath. The below video will help you get more comfortable with belly breathing. 




Mindful Observations


When carrying out certain tasks during your day you can turn these into mindfulness practise. I personally do this when washing the dishes as I usually find this chore a really drag. So when carrying out this task I become fully present in the moment. I start to notice such things as the temperature of the water on my hands, the smell of the washing up liquid, the formation of the bubbles on top of the water, the sensation of the wet cloth on my hands and so forth. I am completely present in the moment and on the task at hand. this works in most situations from doing any household chores to engaging in your favourite hobby.


Mindful Eating

This one is fantastic and has been used successfully by many to help loose unwanted weight as well as living in the present moment. 

Understanding that the act of eating is to nourish and replenish your body. It is not to be used as method of comfort or to soothe unwanted negative emotions.  Start your mindfulness when preparing your food. Be mindful of what it is you are adding to your dishes. Are the ingredients going to nourish and replenish your body? Are they a healthy choice?


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Going into a state of gratitude or grace before you start eating and this will calm your Autonomic Nervous System which will in turn optimise your digesting and absorption of the nutrients of your food. 

While eating, chew your food slowly and be mindful of each mouthful. Savor the flavor, the smell and the texture of each mouthful. Notice what your tummy feels likes as it starts to get full up with food and know when you have had enough. The slower we eat, the less we consume. Research has shown that those who rush their food and eat very quickly will consume almost double that of a person who eats slowly and mindfully.


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Grounding

I love grounding, or as I call it, bare foot walking. Whenever you get the chance, while walking outside, remove your shoes and socks and walk bear foot. It works even better if walking along grass or a sandy beach. Imagine being connected to the ground via energy and feel it raising up through the souls of your feet through your body. Start to notice each step you take, every time your foot connects to the ground you notice the sensation. This usually happens automatically as walking bear foot is such a different sensation to us.


Nature Cues


Use nature as a reminder to practise being mindful. Every time to go outside into nature take time to notice the smells, the sensation of the wind or sun on your skin. Notice the green-ness of the grass and trees and the vibrant colours of the flowers. Notice the sounds of the birds or a near by road of busy traffic. Take it all in. Research has show just being in a natural environment has an positive effect on our Autonomic Nervous Systems and makes us feel calm and rested.


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Until you are able to practice mindfulness intuitively you can set yourself reminders. You could set an alarm on your smart phone to go off at certain time and then do your chosen mindful practice. Or you can leave post it notes around your home in certain places, such as by the sink, which will help you to remember to do some mindfulness mediation's while you wash your dishes. You will soon start to notice that you begin carrying out certain task's in a mindful way without the need of a reminder.

By living a more mindful life you WILL reduce your stress levels which in turn will cure all your stress related illnesses and physical symptoms.

If you are still struggling with mindfulness and your stress levels, then my holistic Life Coaching sessions may be of assistance. We can explore together the issues which are standing in your way and causing your stress. We will work together to remove and reduce these issues and find new ways to become more mindful, which will in turn make your life more balanced and enhance your overall wellness. I offer FREE consultation to everyone to see if Coaching can help you, feel free to get in touch to book a consultation. 

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Love & Light, 








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Lisajane Jones (IPHM) (DIP) of Holistic Honnies is registered as a fully accredited & qualified member of the International Practitioners of Holistic Medicine.

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Friday, 16 October 2015

What Is Tarot & How Often Should I Get A Reading?

What Is Tarot & How Often Should I Get A Reading?


Well, I'm going to explain my own personal take on Tarot. Tarot is a very personal process and many people have their own understanding of what Tarot means to them.

I use Tarot cards as a tool to give guidance/advice and some insight to different situation and areas of life.

Each Tarot deck has 78 cards and each of these individual cards holds its own meaning, a story behind it. Good Tarot readers will use intuition and understanding of each card to see what the cards are trying to tell us in each reading.

Tarot can tell us information about our past, any issues or blockages we have, things happening in our present and even give us a glimpse of how our futures could potentially look like! Now the future part usually gets people all excited thinking the tarot will predict exactly how their life will pan out. But that's not quite how it works.

Every person has free will! We all make our own choices and decisions in our lives which will have either a positive or negative effect. Tarot cards can give us advice and guidance and a will point out things that MAY happen in your future IF YOU want them too and if you follow the guidance given by the cards. Its your choice if you take the advice given by the Tarot cards or not. If something comes up in your present or future part of a reading which you don't like then YOU CAN change it. You have free will. The Tarot will never leave you hanging so to speak, they will always give you some advice and guidance on where to make changes, which road to take etc etc.

Now, how often should you get a reading done?

Well this is a very personal issue but in reality there is absolutely no point going from one reader to the next asking the same questions expecting different answers. Tarot reading need to be respected and over use will end in confusion, which is exactly the opposite to why most people would get a Tarot Reading.

Now there is no reason why you cant get Tarot Readings done often IF they are for different areas of your life. Most people really like having one reading concentrating on one area of life, such as, love, work, family etc. I personally wouldn't get a reading done myself more than once a fortnight when focusing on a particular areas of my life and each new reading being on a different topic.

If getting a general reading for guidance, advice and insight on your life as a whole then there really isn't much point of getting them done more than a few months apart. You need to give your life a chance to live. You need to allow things to happen and a chance and move forward, these changes don’t always happen within a few days or even months. If you continue to get general reading on a weekly basis on the same area/subject then again – you’re running into the risk of confusion and the same advice coming through in all your readings.

So that’s  a little bit of info on my own take of Tarot – now some people may feel differently, Tarot is very personal to the reader and the querent. You may find a Tarot Reader who is willing to do reading after reading for you, my advice would be to avoid these types of readers, especially if you are paying them for readings as they are most likely just wanting to take your money not actual offer you real guidance and insight. All of the fantastic Tarot Reader I know will not do the same reading for someone time and time again, then ask for the querent to give a reasonable amount of time between reading before approaching the same subject again.

If you would like a Tarot Reading from me then feel free to go to my Etsy Store to check out my range of readings or visit my website.

Have a blessed day, Love and light



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Monday, 5 October 2015

Mindfulness ~ Dealing With Crappy Emotions

Dealing with difficult emotions can be ... well ... bloody difficult!!



We all have to deal with emotions that don't feel very nice, whether that be stress, anger, depression, anxiety etc. Caused by an array of things from work, relationships, past trauma, that annoying "friend". 

Some people have to deal with these emotion on a long term basis, struggling daily with these very powerful emotions. Maybe you are one of them? Some times it feels like we a fighting these emotions so hard and constantly, which can leave us feeling drain, tired and washed out.

Using some mindfulness techniques may be just want you need to help you overcome these emotion. They work just as well for long term emotional issues as well as the daily emotions grind we have to deal with in our busy lives.

What mindfulness asks of people (to stop running away from themselves and surpass difficulties as they arise in awareness, moment by moment) is both very simple and very challenging. As soon as you get a glimmer of the effect mindfulness has, your trust in the process grows and grows and a new way of life emerges.


The next time you are faced with some difficult emotions try doing this:


  1. Feel the emotion present in the here and now.
  2. Label the emotion in your mind, and repeat it (such as fear, fear).
  3. Notice the desire to get rid of the emotion, and as far as you can, gently be with it.
  4. Be mindful of where you feel the emotion in your body (most emotions create a physical sensation in the body).
  5. Observe the thoughts running through your mind.
  6. Breathe into the emotion, allowing your breathing to help you observe what you are feeling with warmth and friendliness. Say in your mind, 'it's ok. Let me be with this feeling. It will pass'.
  7. Become aware of the effect of this exercise on the emotion for a few moments.


Trust me .... this technique works!!

Try doing this with a sense of gentleness.  Explore the emotion you are experiencing as a whole, feel the physical sensation, listen to your heart beat, what is this emotion trying to tell you? Most of us fight off any negative emotions and try to suppress them and will them away as quickly as possible. But this actually makes the emotion feel stronger and thus makes us feel worse.

Get in touch with those emotion and listen to what they are trying to tell you about your situation or your issues.

Now if this all sounds a bit too much to take on then just take it step by step. You don't have to be a master at mindfulness for this to help you, just take your time but each step should lead you onto another step and then another, until your able to do all steps all at once :)



Learning mindfulness is a long-term process and can be difficult at times. If you would like help on becoming more mindful, learning how to meditate and gaining more balance in your life then why not have a one to one session with me on Mindfulness and Spiritual Development. I have may different exercises and tips and tricks to get you on the right track.

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Here is a great Mindful guided mediation from